Here are some grief support resources you might find helpful:
FOR MILITARY LOSS:
AMERICAN WIDOW PROJECT provides vital support to military widows and assists them in rebuilding their lives in the face of tragedy. One of these programs, “Widow U” offers courses to provide military widows with the tools, empowerment, and education for the next steps on their journey.
Personal Grief Coach provides links to additional points of support.
TAPS (Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors) offers compassionate care to all those grieving the loss of a military loved one.